Article created by: Kotryna Br In one of her pieces for The Guardian, writer Gaby Hinsliff argues that it's time for people to stop rolling their eyes whenever they hear someone say "modern male struggle". To get a better understanding of what it entails, let's take a look at a Reddit thread that asked the platform's men what they want to stop being judged for. From their physical features to how they behave in public, continue scrolling to check out some of their top-voted replies. Read More: Men Share 30 Annoying Things They Experience Because Of Their Gender #1 Being short. Literally no one has control over their height. Judge people for the things they *can* control. Image credits: Ourobius #2 Interacting with kids. Especially younger kids, the majority of men arnt pedophiles. Image credits: Cautious_Travel_4762 #3 Seeking support with mental health. I grew up in an environment where this wasn’t ok, but in adulthood I very much needed help working through things and didn’t have the tools or understanding to do it alone. Image credits: wolf_talon #4 complimenting another man. Image credits: Overall_Sandwich_671 #5 Having hobbies people define as effeminate. Such as baking, gardening, textiles, stuff like that. Elaborating, I love gardening myself, I have a growing garden myself and it has helped immensely with anger issues I used to have, and I’ve had guests over who always assume it’s a product of my wife’s work, which is why I mentioned it. Image credits: Foxtrot-Actual #6 Taking their full paternity leave as permitted by their employer. Image credits: gloebe10 #7 Showing emotion, or not showing emotion. We should get to choose how we feel. Image credits: Crossfyre13 #8 Taking long showers. I wish that I was able to take a long shower without everybody in the household thinking I'm having a wank. I just want to enjoy hot water, it's relaxing. Image credits: Androtical #9 not peeing standing up. sitting is so much more comfortable Image credits: aleee_j0 #10 Being shy Image credits: RadiantHC #11 For not having a house, not having a car, or not being financially stable. I'm doing what I can, ok? Image credits: Axolotl_SAM #12 Getting physically taken care of, for instance massage, spa that kind of thing. Why should women be the only ones to get that stuff? Massages are the best thing.... especially if you do lots of heavy lifting, sports, you know "man" stuff Image credits: Ginger-Beefcake #13 Taking the sudden wide step to free our balls from sticking to our thigh Image credits: AJSK18 #14 Having trust issues with women. We are suppose to accept women have trust issues with men, but guys are taken less seriously even when they have solid reasons. Image credits: Acryllus #15 Being close to their parents. Just because a man is close to his parents/ mother doesn’t mean he’s a “mamas boy.” Image credits: Avocadofarmer32 #16 Having a tea party with their daughter. #17 Being lonely and depressed. Image credits: AageKush #18 “Patriarchy” or being a sucessfull white man even though I was born in poverty.. It’s not my fault the world was how it was before I was born.. I don’t belittle women or think they are lesser.. #19 Being happy. Idc if we're wearing PPE and everyone on this jobsite is a depressed alcoholic, I'm gonna whistle once in a while and wear my SpongeBob socks. #20 Not being comfortable around kids. It doesn't mean they can't handle kids or don't like kids. Most likely, it just means they're new to it. You Might Also Like: Someone Asks Atheists From Religious Families What Made Them Non-Believers, 22 Give Honest Answers Image credits: YeePepper Men Share 20 Annoying Things They Experience Because Of Their Gender

Article created by: Kotryna Br

In one of her pieces for The Guardian, writer Gaby Hinsliff argues that it's time for people to stop rolling their eyes whenever they hear someone say "modern male struggle".

To get a better understanding of what it entails, let's take a look at a Reddit thread that asked the platform's men what they want to stop being judged for.

From their physical features to how they behave in public, continue scrolling to check out some of their top-voted replies.

• Read More: Men Share 30 Annoying Things They Experience Because Of Their Gender

#1

Being short. Literally no one has control over their height. Judge people for the things they *can* control.

Image credits: Ourobius

#2

Interacting with kids. Especially younger kids, the majority of men arnt pedophiles.

Image credits: Cautious_Travel_4762

#3

Seeking support with mental health. I grew up in an environment where this wasn’t ok, but in adulthood I very much needed help working through things and didn’t have the tools or understanding to do it alone.

Image credits: wolf_talon

#4

complimenting another man.

Image credits: Overall_Sandwich_671

#5

Having hobbies people define as effeminate.
Such as baking, gardening, textiles, stuff like that.

Elaborating, I love gardening myself, I have a growing garden myself and it has helped immensely with anger issues I used to have, and I’ve had guests over who always assume it’s a product of my wife’s work, which is why I mentioned it.

Image credits: Foxtrot-Actual

#6

Taking their full paternity leave as permitted by their employer.

Image credits: gloebe10

#7

Showing emotion, or not showing emotion. We should get to choose how we feel.

Image credits: Crossfyre13

#8

Taking long showers. I wish that I was able to take a long shower without everybody in the household thinking I'm having a wank.

I just want to enjoy hot water, it's relaxing.

Image credits: Androtical

#9

not peeing standing up. sitting is so much more comfortable

Image credits: aleee_j0

#10

Being shy

Image credits: RadiantHC

#11

For not having a house, not having a car, or not being financially stable. I'm doing what I can, ok?

Image credits: Axolotl_SAM

#12

Getting physically taken care of, for instance massage, spa that kind of thing. Why should women be the only ones to get that stuff? Massages are the best thing.... especially if you do lots of heavy lifting, sports, you know "man" stuff

Image credits: Ginger-Beefcake

#13

Taking the sudden wide step to free our balls from sticking to our thigh

Image credits: AJSK18

#14

Having trust issues with women. We are suppose to accept women have trust issues with men, but guys are taken less seriously even when they have solid reasons.

Image credits: Acryllus

#15

Being close to their parents. Just because a man is close to his parents/ mother doesn’t mean he’s a “mamas boy.”

Image credits: Avocadofarmer32

#16

Having a tea party with their daughter.

#17

Being lonely and depressed.

Image credits: AageKush

#18

“Patriarchy” or being a sucessfull white man even though I was born in poverty..

It’s not my fault the world was how it was before I was born.. I don’t belittle women or think they are lesser..

#19

Being happy. Idc if we're wearing PPE and everyone on this jobsite is a depressed alcoholic, I'm gonna whistle once in a while and wear my SpongeBob socks.

#20

Not being comfortable around kids. It doesn't mean they can't handle kids or don't like kids. Most likely, it just means they're new to it.

• You Might Also Like: Someone Asks Atheists From Religious Families What Made Them Non-Believers, 22 Give Honest Answers

Image credits: YeePepper

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